Confidence

For some strange reason, people get the idea that I have low self-esteem and that I'm insecure. I talk quietly, but that has nothing to with being insecure.

To quote a woman on Oprah, who had been overweight: "I don't feel the need to be loud. I get attention anyway."

I don't feel the need to be loud either - unless I have something important to say and when I do You will hear me.

I think that I am very attractive and often also sexy and I give myself the right to say things like that about myself(I'm not going to apologise about liking myself).

I love my body, I love my big butt that often needs size Large while my upper body is a Small/Medium. When my stomach is bloated I don't feel on top, but it's normal more often then it's bloated and to have a bloated stomach is nothing unusual so I don't put much energy thinking about that. I think that I have great legs, my thighs are pretty big, but they fit me very well.

I also think that my body is similar to Beyoncé's and she's a goddess. She's not perfect either, but flaws can easily be covered with posture and clothes that enhances other things, or body parts...

I've built my self-esteem from inside by concentrating on the things I like about myself and if there is something that isn't "perfect" like a scar, I think that most people have them so I don't give a crap.

I NEVER compare myself with someone that has a flatter stomach, muscular arms, breast that are the same size(haha) because it doesn't do me any good. I can give compliments and think that others are beautiful and hot, but that doesn't make me any less attractive.